What it means to be a New Yorker
I never really had a grasp on this city, what it really meant IN ITS SOUL. I think it was 'Eat Pray Love' that offered the idea that every city has an identity that can be summed up in a word, and if that word doesn't work for you, you'd best be moving on. In Tokyo, I realized that that word was 'Correct'. Everything you do there had better be the 'correct' way of doing it, because that is the heart and soul of Tokyo. I had my yukata on and the bow was coming undone a bit, I had tied it wrong, and a lady there stopped me and retied it for me, and when it was tied and fixed, I realized it wasn't due to kindness but because it was incorrect, and she looked awfully glad to have righted that wrong. Here in New York, the first year I lived here I got overwhelmed and just couldn't get a sense of the city's soul, what makes it inimitable and quinticentially so. So many people, and so many *types* of people, are living here that every person might h...